Subject: Negative Energy?


From: Leslie Ohanian
Date: Monday, January 8, 2001 3:53 PM
Subject: Negative Energy?

Steve

First of all, thank you for this unique and wonderful
opportunity!

I work with a woman who is perpetually unhappy, things
that I would brush off as not worth getting upset
about she blows out of proportion and spends the day
loudly declaring how mistreated and under appreciated
she is.

I think she can be a fun person to be around, she has
shown that side of it, but after being exposed to the
negative vibes she throws out I feel drained.

I've tried giving her a "positive" way to look at
these things but have had little success.

Can you offer some advice or suggestions on how to
shield myself from this negative energy and at the
same time, try to turn her attitude around?

Leslie Ohanian




From: stephen a hermann <steveradhe@juno.com>
Date: Saturday, January 13, 2001 10:16 AM
Subject: Re: Negative Energy?

Leslie,

Thank you for your question. It's a question I have been asked many
times in the work I do. It sounds like your co- worker needs a lot of
love and help. It is really great that you are willing to attempt to
assist her even though you end up picking up on her negative feelings.
Keep in mind that you are not responsible for making her happy. She has
free will and can chose to stay focused on negativity as long as she
wants. Once people get stuck in negative patterns it is difficult to
change and ultimately unless we won't be unless we are open to it and are
willing to do our part in the process.

I suggest that you first work on strengthening and raising your own
energy that way you will be less likely to pick up her negative energy.
The best way to raise your own vibration is through regular prayer and
meditation. The more the better. Chanting Affirmations also helps to
purify our minds and raise our consciousness. The bottom line is when we
are in touch with the Divine Power within others around us will be
touched and ultimately transformed. I am sure that you have already
touched her a lot in this way without even being aware of it. Keep in
mind that most healings are gradual and take place as the individual in
need makes adjustments in his or her lifestyle and patterns of thought
She most likely could benefit from a support group. !2 step ones work
really well for a lot of people.. It's important in this situation that
you establish healthy boundaries and don't let her over step them.

If you raise your own energy up you will less likely to be drained. This
is not always easy but most professional care givers such as nurses,
psychotherapists, massage therapists, etc. have to learn how to feel
love and compassion for those they are working with, FEEL the problems of
others, without taking such problems on or being brought down by such low
vibes. As a medium for this reason I do as much as possible to take
care of myself.

Physically, mentally and emotionally this needs to be done and most
importantly spiritually with your own prayer and spiritual practice.
Keep in mind that we are just channels for the healing to work through.
I have no doubt that your friend will be spiritually touched through your
kindness and the love of your presence. Don't worry about the results
If you pray for help you will get it.

A few other suggestions. Typically negative energy will be felt in the
solar plexus area. Some people find that mentally imaging a shield of
light of protection in this area or completely around the body helps to
block out the negative energy. Also, Pray for her send her love and
healing for her highest good. Know that healing always works and reaches
a person for his or her highest good and growth. When you are within her
auric field or when she starts up about how bad she feels. in your mind
pray for her. Send her LOVE and know that she is being touched by a
higher power. You may not instantly see the results but she will be
reached.

I hope that this gives you some ideas Leslie. Let me know how things
work out. I will send some energy to the situation as well.. You also
have Guides who will help you.

Take care and God Bless,

Steve


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